One thing at a time - that never never happens, but everything at once can be hard to manage. Zen says 'welcome!', it's life after all. And I do too, but sometimes the door is just blown off its hinges. All you can do is laugh or fall off the planet. Myriad meetings from disasters, drought, plague, blue tailed skinks, floods, foxes and crawdad claws in the road.... everything is here, now and unstable all at once, all together. Welcome!